Conflicted Hearts: Daughter’s Quest for Solace from Emotional Guilt


I was pleasantly surprised to find a review of my book Conflicted Hearts on memoir writer’s Sherrey Meyer’s page.


Memoir writing is a very personal style of writing. We write from our souls and from our own vantage point about how we dealt with our surroundings, and what we felt resulted from the situations.


It’s a very gratifying feeling for a memoir writer to see her works shared by others, especially a fellow memoir writer. Thank you Sherrey for sharing your reading my book and sharing your thoughts.


I eagerly await Sherrey’s publication of her memoir, which she is currently in the process of titling. Her story also deals with the volatile relationship between her and her mother.

Conflicted Hearts Cover SMALL revised


Read Sherrey’s review below:



Imagine feeling frustrated and powerless in a situation you’re desperate to resolve. When you’re a child, that angst multiplies immensely because you are only that–a child. You have no power to speak out about what you’re feeling, and neither are you permitted to ask questions that might soothe your inner turmoil, because the cause of your dilemmas are adult matters that apparently shouldn’t concern you. ~ D.G. KayeConflicted Hearts

At the beginning of Chapter 8 of Conflicted Hearts , the same chapter from which the above quote is taken, D.G. Kaye writes the following:

We are the products of our parents. How can they teach us what they didn’t know?

Likely, these words resonate with more than one reader with parents from the same generation as Kaye’s.

The author’s fluid writing style and storyteller’s voice gives the reader a sense of sitting down over a steaming cup of coffee or tea with a friend. The friend begins to tell you what life was like for her as a child. You sit in disbelief, wondering how this positive, strong, loving woman lived through the parenting received at the mind and hands of her mother.

Yet, our author and friend lives with a guilt burdening her for far too long. This is the skin she wants to shed–the skin of her guilt feelings. It appears to this reader nothing has been D.G. Kaye’s fault with respect to her mother and her mother’s behavior. The guild is just another layer applied like frosting on a cake. Only this isn’t frosting. It isn’t sweet, and it leaves an acid taste in your mouth.

D.G. Kaye is not ashamed nor abashed about telling her story and sharing it with those willing to read. Her truthful memories will unfasten for others the doors to walk through to the other side of life. Life filled with love, happiness, and respect.

Thank you to the author for the gift of her words.

My Recommendation:

I highly recommend this book for anyone who lived through an emotionally and verbally abusive childhood, one like D.G. Kaye’s. Remember, you are not the one at fault, and reading Kaye’s memoir will help you understand that.


Source: Conflicted Hearts: Daughter’s Quest for Solace from Emotional Guilt

16 thoughts on “Conflicted Hearts: Daughter’s Quest for Solace from Emotional Guilt

  1. Thanks for sharing D.G. Not to blow my own horn, but you should read, Miedo. I think it would really pertain to you. There’s a lot of child abuse involved.


  2. Wonderful review Deb and good luck to Sherrey with her own book.. I wonder how many Mother Daughter conflicts there are which have left their scars out there?

    Love and Hugs your way xxx


  3. Great review for such a beautiful book!…
    Congrats to the author!. Hey wait.. Do you know the author?… o_O
    Love and all the best, dear DG. Aquileana 😀


  4. Congratulations on the nice review, Debby. Oh, those painful mother-daughter conflicts… I couldn’t resolve my relationship with my mother until she had Alzheimer’s Disease and began sharing her feelings.


    1. It’s really amazing to find out that so many people had mother issues; especially writers. At least you were blessed to get a chance to finally get your feelings out. Thanksfor the kudos too E. ❤


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