Sunday Book Review – New Reviews are in for Words We Carry #Memoir

Words We Carry by D.G. Kaye

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5 Stars

on July 5, 2018


I purchased this book months ago, and for whatever reason, let it languish in the dusty corners of my Kindle. What a mistake! My eyes have been opened…

D. G. Kaye bares her soul by sharing some of the experiences she endured as a child and onward into her adult years, at the hands of a narcissistic mother. It’s all there, in excruciating detail, the shaming and the harmful words used to inflict pain resulting in the author’s low self-esteem.

She says:

“Many factors contribute to the complexities we experience throughout our lives, all of which aid in shaping our self-perception. We tend to carry baggage from our wounded egos—from the slights, injustices, and teasing of our pasts—which, when harbored internally, can fester into a damaged soul.”

Needless to say, I can relate to her experiences from my own upbringing. I immediately felt an empathetic connection to the author as a person, and that is where this author excels in her writing. By sharing her experiences, she appears to have found the formula for how to deal with her own issues head on!

Words We Carry is jam-packed full of sound “girlfriend” advice for those of us who are ready to change our perceptions. In fact, D. G. Kaye suggests that we learn to “become uplifted and inspired by positive people instead of clinging to negative people who will suck us dry of energy and, in the process, take us down with them.”

Real change is brought about when we learn to deal with ridicule and rejection. The author stresses an attitude of “self-love,” something we all need a healthy dose of at least once a day.

I didn’t feel like this was a “self-help” book, instead, I found this book to be more inspirational in nature. It gave me hope that I can learn to let go of the hurt from my own past.

This is the third book I’ve read by D. G. Kaye. The author touches a chord in me every time. ❤


Character Believability: 5
Flow and Pace: 5
Reader Engagement: 5
Reader Enrichment: 5
Reader Enjoyment: 5
Overall Rate: 5 out of 5 STARS
Words We Carry: Essays of Obsession and Self-Esteem

Madelyn Griffith-Haynie

September 13, 2017

Format: Kindle EditionVerified Purchase

Some of you will find this book comforting, and a few of you will find it just what the doctor ordered. But it is not for everyone.

You probably won’t be able to relate if you are one of the lucky few whose parents supported your every endeavor, who were never bullied or at the receiving end of a few catty comments that echo still, who began living the life of your dreams and tripped over the perfect relationship the moment you left your parent’s house, or who always found yourself in the center of “the IN crowd.”

FOR EVERYONE ELSE, this is an uplifting, positively focused quick read that is more like a conversation with a supportive big sister. The “girlfriend” conversational tone is one of the book’s charms. Using “open-faced sandwich” examples from her own life in a series of shorter essays organized in sections, the author shares her own insecurities and how she overcame them, disclosing many of her own challenges with the process of developing self-esteem herself. Many with her history might not have been able to do so, struggling still.

‘Words’ would be helpful to anyone of any age with a similar background (and most females still struggling to make peace with their real or imagined “flaws”), but I especially want to encourage younger women to give it a read. It is likely to save you a few years of “relationship mistakes” and second-guessing as you work through the many issues common to most of us. Perhaps it will help you avoid some of the heartache that accompanies those years when we SO much want to be “popular” and think we would be if we were taller/shorter/thinner/blonder – whatever-er!!

Follow the author’s journey as she takes us through what it took for her to work through her own “flaws” and negative emotions and come out the other side, whole, happily married to a wonderful man for many years now, and extremely productive.
(Madelyn Griffith-Haynie – ADDandSoMuchMORE dot com)
ADD/EFD Coach Training Field founder; ADD Coaching co-founder
“It takes a village to transform a world!”

5 Stars
on September 16, 2018

Once in a while you come across a book that really speaks to you. Reading ‘Words We Carry’ by D. G. Kaye was like having friends over for coffee and revealing our innermost secrets or speaking to your mentor about life and how to make it better. The author, who has natural psychology opened my eyes and made me ponder why I react the way I do to certain things or certain people. I enjoyed author, D.G. Kaye’s writing style––so friendly and warm. This book is well written and is easily one that can change someone’s life.

I recommend this book to anyone who ever felt insecure, self-conscious or inadequate. An easy 5 star read.

36 thoughts on “Sunday Book Review – New Reviews are in for Words We Carry #Memoir

  1. Hi Debby,
    For me, it’s a toss-up between “Conflicted Hearts” or “Words We Carry” of which I enjoyed more. The first sets the groundwork for all of your books, but the latter (Words…) substantiates the healing process and maturity. HUGS


    1. Thank you so much Chuck. If you’ve read Conflicted Hearts, I really think you would enjoy P.S. I Forgive, it kind of ties everything full circle and it’s when I learned to finally let it all go. Let me know if you’ve read it or if it’s on your Kindle from when I put it on free. ❤


      1. Oh okay, I wasn’t sure if you had. Sorry Chuck, lol, I’m losing the plot. And to me, writing that book helped me put it all in a box for me, tied it up and it set me free from all the guilt. 🙂 ❤


      2. You have that right. As with you, writing my two books closed that chapter of my life. There is an emotional freedom that comes with leaving the baggage at the station. I am done writing about my wounded self. I’ve started my first true fiction and enjoying writing it. HUGS


  2. This is the next of yours on my TBR list. (And have always loved the cover–might be my favorite.) Lovely reviews. Hope you’re well, my friend. 🙂

    (Okay…having issues commenting again so hope you get this. Cheers!)


    1. Hello my Lovely! Yes, I did receive your comment, sorry for the grief, but the gremlins have been looming large, lol. Thanks for your lovely words and I’m thrilled my book is moving up on your big fat TBR, lol. Hugs! ❤


  3. Hi Debby – so interesting to read … I had a relatively fortunate childhood – perhaps not encouraged at school … but life is life … and other things happened. I can quite see what the others have said … that this will be so helpful for those trying to adjust …… and we all have things that happen in our futures lives where your book would make a lot of sense to be read and be understood at that stage. Great to read – and well done … so pleased for you – and good that you’ve addressed the issues full on. Cheers Hilary


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