Updates: I’ve Been Featured in Romanceaholic’s Monthly Magazine and my Blog is Nominated for the #BloggersBash

While I was away, the presses weren’t sleeping. I just scrolled through my saved drafts of articles I came across while briefly popping by blogworld.


I was delighted to find that once again my blog has been nominated again for the #BloggersBash awards. And I’d forgotten I was invited for interview as a guest writer for the 10th issue of Romanceaholic’s Magazine last fall. I will share the link to the magazine here, but I’m not sure anyone who isn’t a subscriber will get to view it. Just in case, I’ve included the questions I was asked to answer in short for my feature:





What is an author goal you want to accomplish this year? *

I wanted to take a year off book writing and enter more writing contests and challenges and get myself more involved with marketing and brushing up on the ever-changing publishing industry.


What is something that keeps you motivated as an author? *

Blogging and being part of a blogging community with so many inspiring other writers. Being part of this community offers a lot of interaction and potential friendships with like-minded people and keeps us up-to-date in the publishing industry with the various newsletters and informative posts cultivated by other writers. When a writer needs help, the best place to go is to another writing friend.


Why is writing important to you? *

Writing is a powerful way of expressing ourselves and spreading our messages. Many people have a difficult time expressing themselves verbally. Writing is a wonderful medium to get our thoughts out of our heads and on to paper (or keyboards). We don’t necessarily have to publish everything we write. Sometimes it’s just therapeutic to write to sort our thoughts and get a new perspective on issues.


How much real life do you put into or influences your books? *

All my books are written as memoirs or nonfiction, so my truth and experiences in my writing is all real life.


What is the hardest part of writing for you? *

I can’t really say there is a hardest part. Some parts of the process are definitely more challenging than others. Revising and editing aren’t nearly as fun as writing is for me, but a necessary part of writing to clean up my stories.


What are your current projects? *

I previously mentioned I wasn’t writing a book this year, but that doesn’t mean I’m not working on ideas. I have an outline done and some rough chapters for my next book – a sequel to my Menowhat? A Memoir book – The Change After the Change, because ladies, the fun doesn’t end after menopause!


How do you go about choosing the title for your book(s)? *

I’ve always had a knack for titles, so I’m lucky I’ve never had to struggle for titles like many other writers seem to. A title is like writing sales ad copy – we pick out the core essence of our story and work a title around that. My books are often titled after I’ve written the theme and outline, and rarely do my titles get changed by the time a book is finished being written.


What is your favorite genre to write? *

My favorite genre to write in is nonfiction. I am a truth teller and a sharer of stories to inspire, which is at the heart of all of my books. I don’t feel the desire to hide behind a veil when I write. My position is I don’t feel the need to express my stories in fiction why not claim ownership?


Generally, how long does it take you to complete a book from idea to publishing? *

If I’m writing a book, I’m disciplined by my own self-imposed deadlines, which I adhere to. If I’m writing every day, I would say I could finish writing, revising and gone through editor and back in roughly 5 months then add another few weeks for the publishing (hair-tearing) part.


Do you ever use someone in your life as a sounding board for ideas or do you prefer to work alone? *

I prefer to work alone, in silence when I’m writing. But I always send my work to a few author friends for feedback before sending it to the editor. Any other nagging issues with my work, I always consult with author friends or within my blogging community.


How much research do you do for your books? *

I do research on my projects before I begin writing. I usually like to survey the books already available in my category, the audience, reviews, and the material offered. But as far as researching my stories, they all come from my own memory and experiences. Occasionally, in my memoirs, I’ve consulted with some of the people in my book for their perspective on certain incidents.


Did you learn anything while writing your book(s)? *

As long as we are writing and reading we are learning.


What would be your next best choice if not writing as a career? *

I couldn’t imagine not writing. I’m pretty sure I’d retire if not writing, then write for a hobby anyway. I don’t believe writers with the passion ever retire from writing.


Do you have any advice for new authors looking to make their own literary statement? *

Write every day. Use writing prompts or free-write daily to exercise the mind. You don’t have to be writing a book to write every day. Read lots of books in your genre, but read lots in other genres too. Reading sharpens our writing skills by seeing different writer styles, voice and phrasing. All these elements will help develop a style of your own. When you discover your style and voice, you can make your statement.


How many books have you written? Do you have a particular favorite? *

I have written six books. Each of my books holds a special place within me. But if I had to choose, I would have to say my favorite book is P.S. I Forgive You. The story is based on the upcoming, and ultimately, the death of my mother and the years it took to escape her narcissistic clutches and the decisions I made to remain estranged from her despite her dying and finding forgiveness for both her and myself.


Why did you choose to use a publisher instead of self-publishing?

I didn’t. I’m a self-published author and proud of my accomplishments.


Do you have a favorite Hero or Heroine from any of your books and why? *

My heroes are every day people. Because my books are memoir and self-help and written from my own experiences, I’d have to say that I am the heroine.


Share one thing about yourself that would surprise people who know you. *

I am very outgoing and a social butterfly, but I freeze up when it comes to public speaking.


If you could go anywhere at all on your next vacation where would you go? *

Back to Mexico. The weather is beautiful, the people are friendly, and I get the best value for my not so great, Canadian dollar.


Favorite social network and why? *

I would have to say Facebook. I get the most interaction there with other writers and my readers. I run a few writing groups with a few author friends and we’ve gained quite a readership. Groups are a great place to share our work, socialize, and run events and promotions.


What was your “dream” job as a child? *

Ha! I wanted to be a singer when I grew up. I did follow the path for awhile but gave it up when I was in my mid-twenties.


Do you have anything you would like to say to your current readers or to those that haven’t yet read your work(s)?

If you enjoy reading stories about real life situations and redemption, whether illness, growing up in dysfunction and overcoming self-esteem, finding the humor in menopause, or how to keep the love going in a marriage, I share those stories and many more in my various books.


Next . . .


I’m thrilled once again to be nominated for the #BloggersBash best blogging/writing blog award. Thank you to all who nominated me. If you haven’t voted yet for some of your favorite blogs, please click on Blogger’s Bash post to cast your votes. And thanks again to all who votes for my blog. ❤💋


Blogger's Bash nominated blog


And Last but Not Least . . .


I just wanted to mention here, since it is an update post, that I have joined MeWe.com. It’s a fairly new social media site geared at no privacy invasion, no data stealing and no fake news. It aims to compete with Facebook, where many seem to be leaving lately.

My good friend Colleen Chesebro has already left FB and laying the groundwork for our writing groups and growing a following. I am there still working out the kinks but I will soon be posting all posts I send to share to FB on Mewe once I get organized. Lately, many authors are being treated like spam on FB and having posts removed as am I and my good friend Sally Cronin, who wrote a post about the situation this past week.

Please feel free to friend me at mewe.com/i/debbygies if you decide to join, and hopefully we’ll get a bunch of us over there eventually. Hope to see you there. I haven’t left FB yet, but I’m planning on doing so if they don’t put back my posts. Also note, the mewe contact highlighted in red will not allow me to link here. Please copy and paste it in your browser and it will take you to a page to join and friend me.

Also, Sally Cronin, Colleen Chesebro and myself have set up a writers group there. Once you join mewe, please join our group hangout. Happy to say we only opened the page 2 days ago as of this writing and we’re almost 40 members. Yay! 😊




Literary Divas



42 thoughts on “Updates: I’ve Been Featured in Romanceaholic’s Monthly Magazine and my Blog is Nominated for the #BloggersBash

  1. Yay, for your Bloggers Bash nomination, Debby. 💕 I hadn’t heard of MeWe and will check it out, as I left Facebook a long time ago now. Huge hugs for you, my unicotn buddy. Xxx 😘


    1. Thank you my Lovely! And yes, do consider joining us on MeWe, it’s a refreshing change to be on a platform without being tracked by spies lol. ❤ Hugs! xoxo


    1. Thanks so much Robbie. And so pleased to learn you’ve joined. You’ll find it much easier to navigate than on FB when you do. In the meantime, I’ll send you a contact there. 🙂 x


  2. Hi Debbie … great post – well done on being nominated and I sure hope you win – I struggled with the instructions … but wish you well. Interesting about the MeWe situation … I’ll probably be back … as I do dislike FB. Congratulations on the entry – loved reading your answers … and am sure your books are very relevant and necessary for many of us – cheers Hilary


  3. Congratulations are in order Debby deservedly so, and thankfully I was never inclined to join FB, and I fear it has gone from bad to worse by what others tell me. This is a new platform MeWe.com and had not heard of it before. But it sounds good. And wish you well with it.
    Sending love and Light, and enjoyable weekend ❤ Hugs..


    1. Thanks so much Sue. Yes, FB has certainly had it’s bad press this year and I don’t see it getting any better. At least if you should decide to engage in a social group, there is an alternative. 🙂 ❤


  4. Thanks for sharing the interview, Debby. Great advice, as ever. I especially love the ideas you have given when it comes to writing every day. And I completely agree with your answer about retiring from writing. Retiring from writing would be like the end of the world to me!

    Congratulations on your nomination for this year’s Bloggers Bash awards. I’m pleased that you’ve been nominated in the correct category. I can’t figure out why some bloggers have ended up being nominated in categories where their blog isn’t the main feature of the category selected. Something, I think, I will highlight with the rest of the committee.


    1. Hi Hugh Thanks for the lovely kudos my friend. No surprise we’re on the same page about writing. Omg, I can’t imagine getting old without writing! And thrilled to be nominated once again! 🙂 ❤


    1. Lol thanks Jacqui. It was weird. I’d never done an electronic fill out form interview. All questions were asterisked they must be answered, lol. And not sure I’m one of those authors with aspirations to be traditionally published. I believe if it’s meant to be, someone will find me lol. 🙂


  5. Congrats Debby on being featured in Romanceaholic and on being nominated for a Bloggers Bash award. I always enjoy reading your books, and like you, I have to write in silence.


  6. Huge congrats for the nomination, Deb, as well as the guest post! I’m weary of FB and it’s shenanigans, but currently, I don’t have a good place to share my photos besides Instagram and FB. I just read Sally’s post, too. Hopefully things get sorted out soon!


    1. Well, we haven’t left completely (except Colleen), and we’re just getting used to the user friendly platform MeWe. You should join up, join our literary group and open up a new photography group where you can post your photos and challenges too. 🙂 xx


  7. What? Menopause isn’t the end of it? Please tell me you’re joking! Lol Ugh.
    Congrats on the nomination, Debby, and the mag publication. 🙂 And I will join Me.we. I just need to get organized – that is a momentous task, but I will get there. 🙂


    1. Lol Diana, surely you know the fun doesn’t end at menopause? LOL Looking forward to seeing you on MeWe. There are many of us in there now, and most of us are transitioning with using both MeWe and FB while trying to grow our audience there. Hope to see you there soon 🙂 ❤


  8. Great news about your interview and the blog nomination, Debby. Good luck! You deserve it! I’ve heard about Sally’s problems and also seen that Colleen has left Facebook and have heard of MeWee but I’m not sure about joining something else at the moment. I don’t like Facebook but use it to keep in touch with some relatives and friends, so leaving it completely might be complicated. I’ll give it a thought when I have a bit more time.


  9. Lots of exciting news, Debby. I enjoyed your interview. Thanks for posting the questions and your responses. Congratulations on your Blogger Award nominations. And thanks for the invitation to join you on mewe. I don’t think I have time to fail at another social media site at the moment, but I’ll think about it. 🙂


    1. Thanks for the lovely kudos Norah.And lol, you are far from a failure. MeWe is some food for thought for future reference. Some from fb have already migrated there and staying on both platforms for now like me. But it’s a great alternative without data stealing and annoying ads. 🙂


  10. Lovely poem, Debby. I have the same problem with the poplar trees along our road. Rooks nest in the treetops and splatter the road below until it rains and washes it all away!


  11. Congrats on the nomination, but I’m not surprised! 🙂 Interesting news about mewe and Facebook. FB has been awful lately, just like Amazon has been awful. They’re simply too powerful.


    1. Thanks Kate. And you are bang on – way too much power!!! FB has been ridiculous. So many author’s in fb jail for posting on writing. Our MeWe group of authors is growing nicely. Give me a buzz when you’re ready to join. 🙂


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