Sunday Book Review – Mrs. Everything by Jennifer Weiner

This Sunday Book Review is for Jennifer Weiner’s bestseller – Mrs. Everything. Another wonderful pick recommended by CEO of our Canadian book chain Chapters Indigo. How could I resist? A family saga story of two sisters coming of age in 1960s Detroit with feminism, gay, and civil rights at the forefront of the era, and how the times affected their childhoods and led them and their path through life to who they ultimately grew up to be.





Do we change or does the world change us?

Jo and Bethie Kaufman were born into a world full of promise.

Growing up in 1950s Detroit, they live in a perfect “Dick and Jane” house, where their roles in the family are clearly defined. Jo is the tomboy, the bookish rebel with a passion to make the world more fair; Bethie is the pretty, feminine good girl, a would-be star who enjoys the power her beauty confers and dreams of a traditional life.

But the truth ends up looking different from what the girls imagined. Jo and Bethie survive traumas and tragedies. As their lives unfold against the background of free love and Vietnam, Woodstock and women’s lib, Bethie becomes an adventure-loving wild child who dives headlong into the counterculture and is up for anything (except settling down). Meanwhile, Jo becomes a proper young mother in Connecticut, a witness to the changing world instead of a participant. Neither woman inhabits the world she dreams of, nor has a life that feels authentic or brings her joy. Is it too late for the women to finally stake a claim on happily ever after?

In her most ambitious novel yet, Jennifer Weiner tells a story of two sisters who, with their different dreams and different paths, offer answers to the question: How should a woman be in the world?


An instant New York Times bestseller

“A multigenerational narrative that’s nothing short of brilliant.” —People
“Simply unputdownable.” —Good Housekeeping
“The perfect book club pick.” —SheReads

Named a Best Book of Summer by Entertainment WeeklyCosmopolitanWoman’s DayPopSugarHelloGiggles, and Refinery29

From Jennifer Weiner, the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Who Do You Love and In Her Shoes comes a smart, thoughtful, and timely exploration of two sisters’ lives from the 1950s to the present as they struggle to find their places—and be true to themselves—in a rapidly evolving world.


My 5 Star Review:

I loved this book!

A story of generational change told by two sisters – Jo and Bethie Kaufman. The story begins with the childhood years of these sisters, growing up in the 50s/60s in Detroit, Michigan, delving into their very different characters as they evolve through their growing up years till present, as the story jumps back and forth from childhood to present.

Jo is an athletic tomboy, who, as she grows up, struggles with her identity, questioning her own opinions, preferences and society and its norms and stigmas as she struggles with relationships – at home and with friends. She has a strong connection with her father and is daddy’s sports lovin’ daughter. Yet, her mother can’t seem to get past Jo’s lack of desire to wear dresses and frills, creating a growing distance between them as Jo matures and questions her gender in silence because questions about being gay were taboo.

Jo’s younger sister Bethie is a girlie-girl, mamma’s girl. Her perfectly planned life takes a whole new trajectory after she becomes sexually abused by a family member. With not wanting to let anyone know, what she carries inside – fear and shame, breaks her when it eventually catches up with her.

The story takes place as events happen in the daily life of what seems the ‘white picket fence’ American family, affecting both sisters in  their very different growing up circumstances in their lives.

The subject matter these girls endure in their lives shapes their lives in different ways. Beth is a studious, pretty and popular girl whose disposition and demeanor in her young 12 year old life becomes altered and marred by the stigma of subjects never talked about in those days – family incest.

Jo is Beth’s protector, and becomes the mother to her sister because their own mother cannot be. Jo has been an activist since she was a young child when she couldn’t understand why her mother fired their maid, whose daughter Jo had befriended. Jo spends her teenage years picketing on weekends with the black folk for civil rights. This girl was born well ahead of the times, living in a world of prejudice and entitlement.

This book has everything. At first, I correlated the title with Jo – being everything to everyone. But even more so are the number of sociological issues the author brings into this book through these richly complex and developed characters, from sexual abuse. civil rights, gay rights, social thinking, and more! This is women’s fiction at its best, covering a complexity of issues entwined in the life of these sisters.

26 thoughts on “Sunday Book Review – Mrs. Everything by Jennifer Weiner

  1. An interesting look at how life can go very differently from what we planned and expected. A great review, Debby.


  2. This sounds like an intriguing read. Any book that challenges relationships, prejudices, and rips off the bandaid into what is happening behind the facade of the perfect family is interesting to me.


  3. I can remember the time well, even in the UK there was expectations for children, particularly girls, that came a cropper once we got into the 1960s. Sounds like an intriguing read for those who grew up in the area, and for young women today who perhaps don’t appreciate how far we have come in 60 years…Terrific review Debb…♥


    1. Thanks a bunch Sal. So right, a great reminder for many and eye-opening for those who’ve not studied the past. I have no doubts you would enjoy this book Sal ❤ xxx


  4. That’s when I ‘came of age’ too–the 1960’s. And just when we thought that was enough to deal with, the Vietnam War hit everyone. What an era. The book sounds intriguing.


  5. This sounds like a juicy read, Deb! I haven’t read one of her books in many years. It’s time to revisit. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and wonderful review. I’ll be adding this to my TBR. I miss getting books from the library! Also, browsing book stores. 😛 There’s always Amazon tho.


    1. So true. I love browsing Amazon. Yes, I hope you enjoy too. I don’t recall reading anything from her and some reviewers seem ticked at this fiction book because they are used to her nonfiction. I’m glad I started with this one. 🙂 x


      1. I didn’t realize she even wrote non-fiction. 😛 The one book I’ve read of hers that was awesome was, Good In Bed. 😀 Enticing the title, right?


      2. Oh ya! Thanks for the recommend. I’m definitely checking it out more of her books and your recommend. And oh, my bad, not sure what I was thinking, I didn’t mean that she writes nonfiction mostly ( but she does have a memoir). rather that with all her great and many reviews, some of her dedicated fans did not like this book, but if you read some of those reviews, it seems many don’t like the subject matter – an author’s nightmare reviewer 🙂 x


  6. Thanks for the review, Debby! You are my sole inspiration when it comes to new-to-me books! This one sounds intriguing and – as you said – has it all. Lots of themes, familiar and not-so-familiar. I’m sure I’d enjoy it as much as you did. The TBR list is growing!


      1. Maybe this Coronavirus gives me that chance, Debby, as – for the first time in months – I have the ability to start reading a book again! “Winter’s Bone” – it’s been sitting on the Zesty shelf for years. 🙂


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