I can almost hear the crash of the waves, smell the waft of coconut scented air along the beach, and know exactly the same two spots that get burned in my first three days of being a sun hog – just above the bandeau top of my bathing suit edge, close to my armpits. Yup, always even, one on each side. It’s like my Mexican welcome gift.
No matter the awareness, the slathering of sunscreen lotion and the constant checking up on, by day three or four in the sun, those two little spots are tender. And no worries, I come equipped to the pool with Tshirt packed in my bag for just the occasion, then stuck wearing it over my swimsuit for two days because of two tender little spots. I’m convinced it has to do with ‘unconscious’ standing and chatting with people in the sun at the pool, unaware of an errant ray of sunshine beating down on an unsuspected spot. Whenever I’d go through the security gates surrounding my rental property, that open right on the beach, I have to walk the length of one of the pools to do so. What should be a less than a minute walk, tends to turn into a half hour lag as it’s typical for me to sidetrack and stop when I pass a traveler friend on a lounger, ending up in some sunny conversation for an undetermined amount of time, where the sun finds some opportunistic moment to shed it’s rays on. That’s how it happens – I am convinced.
And how I am missing ‘the little things’ about human engagement, as I’m sure many of us feel. Being around actual humans and having conversations – significant or otherwise.
The thought of a warm familiarity where I spent many happy winter vacations with my husband, where we spent time with our seasonal friends and despite the many things to do in Mexico, treasured just being out of the cold, relaxing in sunshine and turning off the noise of daily life.

So, you may have guessed it; this is my swan song before my BBB – Big Blogging Break. The packing is on, furiously (as I procrastinated away many days deciding if I was going), car transfers arranged, neighbors alerted, plants will be watered, mail picked up, so I’m going to the land of Tequila and exquisite sunsets. A few friends of mine from here as well as my BFF from U.K. will be joining me at various times (hopefully), so that will be fun. This will be both, a definite solo and girltime holiday. And the change of environment for me is longgggg overdue – mentally mostly, but the benefits will also be amazing physically – walks on the beach and massages, just to mention a few. And then there is the Vitamin Sea and perhaps some Vitamin C in those limes that will float in my Margaritas.
So I’m calling a break because technically I don’t intend to be blogging while indulging, but during my solo parts, one never knows, I may just have to put up a few posts. And I will still pop round on social media and visit blogs when time permits.
I have no clue what to expect this trip, I just know I need it. And of course I will be sharing status reports and beautiful pictures. I expect to be reading several books and will review each one after. I will post those reviews on Goodreads and Amazon and alert the authors when I’ve done so. Upon my return I will begin sharing those reviews again on my Sunday Book Reviews. So even though my blog here may look lonely and abandoned, I won’t be but a click away.

Ole!
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Bon Voyage, enjoy! ππΉ
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Thanks Deb! π x
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Safe travels and enjoy! xx

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LOL muchas gracias Carol β€ xx
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Yin Dee Kha β€
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I learned a new Thai phrase. β€
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You have indeed.. β€οΈ
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Have a wonderful trip, Debby! Bask in the memories and create new ones, too. Safe travels and lots of love. xo
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Thank you so much Amy! β€
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Have a great trip, Debby. You certainly have earned the time away. π
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Thanks so much John! π
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Have a wonderful time, Debby! Send sunshine our way!!!
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Will try my best! Thanks Rebecca β€
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enjoy your trip – it sounds wonderful!
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A distant dream coming soon! π
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Have a fabulous break. You deserve it and more. β₯
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Thanks so much Olga Hugs xx
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Bon voyage, Debby, and enjoy your well-deserved blogging break. Toni x
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Thanks so much Toni xx
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Have a wonderful trip. You’re well prepared so your skin won’t get peeled off. Enjoy every moment! π
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LOL, thanks so much Miriam β€
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I recommend reading this funny book (Have Bags, Will Travel) to get you in the mood. I see you stuffing those bags to the gills. Of course, there’s that damn weight limit.π€£ Here’s to good times, Debby!
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Omg Pete. The struggle is real! I’ve just spent the last 2 hours playing switchies with my packed stuff. This is going to be a real feat getting through unscathed with my big fat bags LOL. π
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How exciting, Debby. Enjoy! You deserve it.
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Thanks so much Norah. β€
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I am so excited for you Debby and I know it will give you such a boost… β₯β₯
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Thanks so much for the boost of confidence Sal. I shall report in as soon as I can. β€ xx
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Bon Voyage, Debby! This trip is going to be sunshine for your soul! I wish you many relaxing days ahead! Soak up each moment! Hugs!
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Thanks bunches Jan. Exactly what my soul needs. β€
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Yay! Sun, beach, margaritas, friends, camaraderie and more margaritas sounds like perfeccion! Have a GREAT trip.
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Thanks bunches Melanie! β€
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Hope you enjoy a wonderful trip, Debby. May the warmth of the sun and memories embrace you gently. xo
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Thanks so much Natalie. β€
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Have a wonderful time Debby. You deserve it. And ‘see’ you when you get back. x
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Thanks bunches Marje xo
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My pleasure lovely. x
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Do have a good holiday, I can feel that sunshine.
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Thanks Janet. π
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Wish we could join you. I’m having fun doing my ever more complicated tax returns for 2021. Getting that done will be enough of a relief to feel like I’m on a beach. LOL. Stay safe and try to keep those rays from toasting you too much.
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Thanks John. I already did the tax thing – well the worst of it anyway. Good luck. π
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Well deserved and long overdue. Enjoy every single minute and soak in that Vitamin D, Debby!
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Thanks Marian. I intend to! Hugs x
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Awesome. You make me crave a warm beach. I hope you have an amazing, relaxing trip with lots of chatter with friends. Bon Voyage!
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Thanks Diane. Looking at the weather here on the news, looks like you may be in for bad snowstorm. Stay warm! π
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A Nor’easter is heading our way. Lots of snow and wind. I’m ready for it. I suppose I should say, “Stay cool.” since you’ll be in a hot spot.
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Lol, stay safe. I know you’re always prepared for these doozies. I really think though the Eastern US is going to get the worst of it.
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Have a wonderful trip, Debby! Bask in the memories and here’s hoping you create wonderful new ones, too. Safe travels and see you when you’re back!
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Thank you so much Damyanti for stopping by and leaving your good cheer! Hugs xx
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How wonderful Debby – vitamin Sea is best! Have a lovely restful time!
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Thanks so much Susan β€
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Wishing you a wonderful holiday, sis. β€
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Thank you Sis. β€
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Hooray! Debby, it’s wonderful you are getting a break and I wish you a fabulous time in Mexico. Your descriptions almost have me booking a flight! It sounds heavenly! How great that your friends are coming out now and then including from the UK – that’s fantastic. I’ll look out for your photos and soak up the warmth, beauty and serenity … alas not able to taste those sumptuous margaritas. πβ€οΈ
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Thanks so much Annika. There will be pictures soon! Hugs xo
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Have a lovely time, Debby. I am envious! xx
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Thanks so much Stevie xx
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Oh Debby, this will be a whole new adventure this year. I think you need it, too. And, I think you will have whole bag of unexpected surprises ahead. Relax, enjoy the sun and the human company. I can’t wait to hear all about it. My heart is full! β€οΈ
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Thank you my lovely friend for all the encouragement. Oh yes, you will be hearing lots from me after this trip – maybe even before! π β€
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Hooray! Best to you, Debby. π
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I’m so darn excited for you dear Debby! You need this trip and the time away even if it will recall dear memories of your sweet hubby! Enjoy yourself and watch those sunburned areas…I know how mine happen, too and it’s not from intentionally laying out! Bon voyage, my friend!
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Thanks bunches Terri for your well wishes. And so, I’m not alone alone with the tender burn spots? Lol π xx
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Yay, Debbie. Iβm so happy to read this! Buen viajes, mi amiga! π
Since Markβs departure a week ago, Iβve met many people at my campground, so I know the feeling of βbeing held upβ chatting. Yesterday, I wanted to quickly go and use the bathroom before Skyping with Mark and it took twenty minutes to walk the 200 feet back home!
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Wonderful! And may I say that your new blog looks as happy and amazing as you sound. I can’t get over the transformation from your old blog to this one. You’ve done a great job with it, Debby.
Have a great time away, and have a few Margaritas for me.
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Thanks for the compliment and the well wishes Hugh. And I will! π x
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Have fun, Debby!
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Thank you Liz β€
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You’re welcome, Debby.
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Sun, surf, good company, and margaritas, it sounds heavenly. Have fun!
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Thanks so much Jacquie β€
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Wishing you a wonderful time away, Debby xo
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Thanks so much Christy. β€
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Hi Debs, Soak it all up and have a fabulous break from every-day routine, iffy weather and sadness. and let your precious memories and the sun warm and make you stronger.Enjoy! Love ‘n’ hugs. xx
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Thank you so much Joy. I needed that reminder today β€ xx
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Of course you need this–so glad it’s finally happening. And even though visiting this spot may bring bittersweet memories, you’ll benefit from re-engaging with seasonal friends, soaking in the rays, and suspending blogging. Ole! π
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Ole! Thank you my friend. β€
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Bon voyage, mon ami. So relieved to hear you are set to fly, my unicorn buddy. Wrapping you in much love, always. β€ β€ xXx β€ β€
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Thank you so much my lovely UB. My horn is on, attempting to soar. Love to you Jane, β€ xoxox
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You are going to have a great time. I’m about 2 hours north of Mexico. I’ll think of you!
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Ole! Thank you Jacqui π
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I’m so happy to hear your trip is a GO, Deb!! Just what the doctor ordered and more. Enjoy every moment, even the quiet ones. sending hugs, well wishes and happy travels to you!! β€ xx
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Thanks so much for the good cheer Lis. Every one of them counts. β€ xx
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Hi Debby, I am late to your farewell party, but I hope you are having a wonderful time and enjoying those margarita.
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Thanks Robbie. Never too late. All well wishes always welcomed. β€
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Have a fabulous time!
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Thanks Deb! x
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You’ve earned it, Debby. Make the most of it in every way! β€
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I will do my best. Thanks so much Carol. xx
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I’m so happy for you, Debby! Enjoy every minute of it. π
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Thank you so much Yvette β€
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Debby – have wonderful fun – it sounds ideal … and I know you’ve been looking forward to it for ages – relax, chill out, read lots etc … cheers Hilary
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Thanks Hilary. Reading lots is the plan! β€
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Have a great time. I love Mexico and the Mexican people, so friendly. xx
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Thanks so much Jane. Ole! β€
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Hola.
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Have an absolutely glorious time, my friend. Don’t worry, be happy. And wear your sunscreen!
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Thanks bunches Diana. Have sunscreen, will travel LOL β€
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Let the sunshine cleanse your soul and happiness refill it – and if that doesn’t work, have another margarita!!! β€ Blessings back dear friend,
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Thank you so much for the well wishes and blessings Ellie. I really need them. β€
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Have a wonderful trip, Debby! Enjoy every moment.
Looking forward to your future posts.
Many Blessings,
Lisa xoxo
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Thank you so much Lisa β€
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Have a fabulous trip. Just what you need! xo
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Thanks so much Darlene β€
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I hope you are enjoying your blogging break Debbie and the Sunshine…. Could do with a bit of that here in the UK… Lol.. its been very hit and miss…. Even my cat has been seeking out those rays when it shines through the window to bask in it…. They know what is good for them….
Hope you don’t get more of those tender spots…
Sending LOVE and Hugs dear friend… You deserve to relax after all you have been through….
Love Sue xox β€
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Thank you Sue. Too late, got the tender spot yesterday, LOL. Never fails. π Yes, it’s amazing to wake to sunshine daily. Unheard of where I live too. Hugs and love to you β€ xooxx
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Enjoy and hope those tender spots soon ease LOL….. Oh to dive into a swimming pool with sun on my back… Loved that.. β€
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A slice of heaven. β€ xx
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Thinking of you while I’m also on a short blogging break. Almost three weeks for me, so I’m back this Friday. But I’ve also been reading the posts of others, checking in to see how we’re all doing during this surreal and challenging time. Writing to each other through our stories – real and fictional – help a lot! Hoping your Vitamin Sea and Sun are helping you heal. xo
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Hi Pam. Thanks for stopping by on your break. I know what you mean about being on break but still checking in and keeping semi abreast. Yes, I have much to write about upon my return. I thought this may be a working holiday but it has turned into a reckoning and unwinding instead. Just what my soul needs. Hugs to you. xo
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“Reckoning and unwinding”…. Wow – talk about a hook!
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Sound like a book title? π x
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Yes!!
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