Q and A with D.G. Kaye Featuring Author Lisa Thomson – The Wine Diaries

Welcome to Q and A with D.G. Kaye interview series. Today I’m happy to introduce here, friend and fellow Canadian author, Lisa Thomson. Lisa is mostly a nonfiction writer who shares lots of herself and her anecdotes and empowering advice for women going through divorce. But her teachings, in conversational writing, invite anyone to read her wisdoms as she has lots of life experience to offer. And her teachings can easily be applied to any kind of loss in life. Let’s get on with the show!     About Lisa: Lisa’s passion for writing began during her divorce and has blossomed into more creative pursuit without losing that drive to help others. Her two self-help books, The great Escape; A Girl’s Guide To Leaving a Marriage and A divorce Companion, help economically-dependent women going through divorce. Hearts Unbroken-short stories, is her first published fiction. A collection of stories featuring characters facing tough decisions. Finding love, losing it, and remaining faithful to their hearts, these characters will show you the power of love. Lisa’s new release, The Wine Diaries: Musings on Divorce Paired With Wine, is a collection of personal stories surrounding the author’s divorce journey and ensuing life lessons. Each diary entry is paired with a wine that suits the mood and emotions in the writing. This lovely collection of stories will inspire anyone going through divorce or a dramatic life change. The reader is encouraged to write in their own diary with writing prompts at the end of each essay. A decidedly hopeful book, viewing the glass as half full. Wine therapy included! Lisa resides in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. She was featured in “B.C. Book World News” as an Indie author to watch. This mom of 3 can be found practicing Yoga, painting, and junk journaling when she is not wine tasting or writing.     Blurb: The Wine Diaries is sure to please those who love to snoop in someone’s diary. If you are navigating divorce or unexpected life changes, this essay collection is bound to comfort and satisfy. With each diary entry paired with a wine suggestion, you will remain quenched in heart, mind and palate. Grab your wine glass and join Lisa for a virtual wine tour of the heart.   Now let’s get to know Lisa a little better:   How many books have you written? Do you have a favorite of your books and if so, why? I’ve written four books. It’s hard to choose a favorite (kind of like choosing a favorite child). If pressed, my first book, The Great Escape: A Girl’s Guide To Leaving a Marriage, would be my favorite. It’s my original divorce self-help guide, and memoir style book written for economically dependent women. The sweat and tears I put into it, plus, the fact that it almost didn’t see the light of day makes it even more special to me. D.G. – I can empathize with your gruel Lis.   Do you have a difficult time choosing titles for your books? How do you choose your titles? Not really. I have almost always chosen the title before writing the actual book. The titles pop into my head shortly after the book idea itself. There was one exception though, where my working title did not end up being the official title. The Icing on The Cake: Short Stories became Hearts Unbroken: Short Stories. Amazon search engines will sometimes have us re-think our working titles, right? The Icing on The Cake came up with cookbooks. This would be misleading for my target audience. Nevertheless, I love a good working title. I can’t get motivated on a manuscript if it hasn’t got a great title. For example, current WIP’s on my shelf; Borderline Hysterical, Polarized and Daughter of the Moon. I love all of these titles but they may eventually change, of course. D.G. – A lot like me Lis. I’ve always had a knack for titles and headlines. Maybe it comes easier for nonfiction writers?   Do your books have messages in them? If so, what are the messages you feel are well received by your readers? Yes. Female empowerment. Coming out of the fire of divorce, healing after break ups or major losses, and love wins in the end. Even my fiction carries that same theme. D.G. – As one who has read some of your books, I will confirm that!   Is there a particular time period in your life that has influenced your writing most? Definitely. My divorce had a major impact on me emotionally and physically. But it wasn’t all negative. There were plenty of positive results and learning experiences that have propelled my writing. D.G. – I think it’s great that you summoned the courage to share your own experiences to help others.   Do you agree with the general consensus that writers are loners? Not exactly. I mean, we have to get ‘out there’ to get ideas. I believe most writers have extremely exuberant personalities. Think of Hemingway. He was famous for partying and enjoying the company of other writers. Sure, it created competition between him and his buddies but I doubt we would have A Moveable Feast if he was truly a loner. I could go on with examples but suffice to say I think it’s a myth. Of course, us writers need some down time to do our thinking, brain storming and cerebral work. That’s not something non-creatives necessarily require. When we’re staring into space, we’re using our minds…some people find this hard to believe. Let’s keep them guessing! D.G. – Lol so true. Nobody knows what lurks in our minds as we sit in silence. A writer’s mind is never silent!   Do you edit and proofread your own work solely or do you hire an editor? I always hire an editor. It’s crucial in my opinion. I’ll add, too, that having beta readers is also an effective way to get feedback and make improvements on your stories. After the professional editing though, there is still a tremendous amount of work to do. When it comes down to the final draft, your instincts will sometimes override suggestions. Keeping your voice and original purpose in your book is key. D.G. – I agree 100%. It’s essential we keep our voice recognizable.   If you could have any of your books made into a movie, which one would you choose and why? I love this question! Borderline Hysterical (still a WIP) was originally drafted up on a spoof to shed light on how ridiculous the divorce process can be. I dreamed of it being an HBO series. Haha! I would love to see one of my short stories from Hearts Unbroken, made into a Hallmark movie. Does that sound silly? In “Sarah’s Decision”, the MC takes a road trip to deal with her growing uncertainty of her marriage. What happens along the way is a quiet recognition of what’s missing in her life. Meeting random people, eating at diners, taking a rest at a cemetery…all lead her to come to a conclusion and finally lose her constant companion of regret. It has all the ingredients for a Hallmark film; young woman on the brink, looking for love, pies, and a road trip. D.G. – Well, I for one would definitely be watching. I really think your divorce stories could actually make a great HBO series!   Can you tell us about your new release, The Wine Diaries? Well, it’s my most personal book to date. I share experiences related to my divorce and how I got there. Where my journey to separation began and how I knew when my marriage was over. In addition, I write about some of the signs that I ignored during my marriage. I almost didn’t publish this one out of fear. My fear was that of being vulnerable. I’m putting my life out there even more than I did in my first book. I spent many a night contemplating the pros and cons of publishing this book. In the end, obviously, publishing won out. Ultimately, I hope to help those who are going through divorce right now, or perhaps in an unhappy marriage or relationship. Also, I believe this book will help people going through a major loss or life change…because the emotions involved in these scenarios are very similar. The best part of this book is the wine, of course. While we deal with some heavy topics, we pair each one with a suitable wine. As I explain in the introduction, wine is a tonic to our difficulties in life. Enjoyed responsibly, wine can act as a stress reducer and a be a lovely evening ritual. D.G. – I am looking so forward to reading!   Find Lisa at these Gin Joints: Her website https://www.lisathomsonlive.com/blog Amazon Author page https://amzn.to/33oDEwQ Twitter https://twitter.com/lisalisathom     Follow Me on Social Media!