Welcome back to the aftermath post of my recent birthday party. It was fun and fabulous and I was in awe at just how far my friend Dorothy went to arrange the beautiful party. From the invites, to her keeping tabs on who is coming and who’s not, setting up the party table and area, full-on decorations, music, food, drink, and good friends. What more could one ask for?
How it began. It began Friday with me at my Body Balance class, gabbing with some of my buddies before class began. Dorothy was off work that day, but she surprised me by coming to gym with her mom and busting in on my class, shouting Happy Birthday, as she pinned the Birthday girl ribbon on me and warned me to be wearing to the party too, lol. I may have been a touched embarrassed as there was a class of twenty-five cheering me from behind the camera. 🙂
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The Party
My friend Mahvash was supposed to pick me up and drive us to the party, except her car was in for service. Yet again. No worries, my friend Ely lives right near us both and picked us both up. When I arrived, most of the women were already there, thanks to the construction everywhere, a five minute drive took almost a half an hour. There were gift bags on a side table, shouts of Happy Birthday from my friends (and my beautiful niece who attended), and a long dining table filled with balloons, a table runner and crayons for writing messages of good cheer on, my own birthday chair, and of course some colorful beverages.
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There were fourteen of us. A wonderful diverse crowd of women of all ages and ethnicity from ages eighteen to seventy-eight! And I am thrilled to have these beautiful women as friends. There was lotsssssssss of gabbing and laughter. I was especially thrilled that my niece and Ely connected instantly and declared themselves ‘besties’ by the end of the night!
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My Stephanie (in the leopard) and my galpal Ely.
Most of the women knew each other from the gym, but some were newly introduced to each other as some of them are gym goers, but don’t participate in classes. My bestie Banan was there too, and sadly, my good friend Alyson didn’t make it that night due to health reasons.
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My bestie Banan (Anna) with me and my good friend Mahvash.
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The Dancing
It was hilarious. Suddenly, the DJ played Pitbull’s Fireball, and my instincts had me up on the floor because that is one of the songs we dance to in Zumba. Nina’s Zumba class, and Nina, not only being my instructor has become a friend of mine, so naturally she was at the party, and naturally, she jumped up to dance with me. Lol, we were cracking up while dancing, and Dorothy joined in to the next Zumba song. Naturally, Nina took the lead.
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It was difficult trying to get everyone in photos so I took many in smaller groups. And many took photos and videos.
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Nina, me, Zahra and Sharon
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Dorothy’s mom Darlene, her daughter Kaitlyn, and my friend Yolande
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Partial group shot
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And of course, the arrival of the cake. And please disregard the huge TV ad for Viagra. Lol.
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When all was said, eaten, danced, and done, it was a fabulous night. All these women now play a big part in my life, and I am so blessed to have them in my tribe.
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What great fun and I love you started with a workout and ended with dance with besties for life!!! Fun times!!! So happy for you Debbi!
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Hi Cindy. Thanks so much. ❤ xx
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You’re so very welcome❣️🙏🏼💃🏻💃🏻
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❤ xx
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Looks like you all had a lot of fun.
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It surely was Anneli. Thanks. 🙂
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Looks like a good time was had by all. I’m happy you have found your tribe at the gym. The retirees at my gym take over mid-morning after all the working stiffs go to their jobs. It’s a fun group of people.
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Lol Pete. It was a great time. And it’s a great social environment. 🙂
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Oh wow, Debby! Happy birthday 🎁 🎂 to you 🎉🥳! How marvelous to have a friend like Dorothy to plan a birthday party like that for you. Everybody was there for your celebration. I like the video of your dancing. 😍
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Hi Miriam. Thanks so much and so glad you enjoyed. It was a lovely gift. ❤
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What an amazing party, Debby! And you dance so well… I love all your friends, too. They must all think you are fantastic.
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Lol, thank you so much Toni. It really was a great night. I think some of my friends find me entertaining, lol. Thanks again my friend. ❤
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What a wonderful party! Happy birthday, Debby. x
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Thanks so much Stevie. It really was. ❤
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A very late Happy Birthday, Debs! And many more…Delighted to see that you and your friends had such a good time. Age is not a problem, as long as you are not a banana or cheese…Love Joy xxx
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Lolol. Thanks so much my lovely Joy for you well wishes. And you got that right – bananas or cheese. Hugs ❤ 🙂 xxx
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Debby, you are a wealthy woman, RICH in friendships, the best kind of wealth.
I admire your keeping fit too. You might age, but you’ll never get old. I feel the same way about my Pilates tribe.Thanks for sharing the festivities. 😀
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Hi Marian. Thanks so much for your kind words. Yes, ‘rich’ in friendship is a great phrase, and all I can ask for. A tribe is a tribe! Hugs ❤
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Hi Debby, What a wonderful birthday party you had. Full of great memories and friends. ❤
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Hi Carol. Yes it was, now great memories to talk and laugh about. ❤
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It sounds fantastic! Shame it’s too far for me to come, but it’s great to see everybody having such a fantastic time. You deserve it, dear Debby! ♥
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Hi Olga. Thanks so much. And yes, you are far away, or you can be sure you would have been invited! Thanks again for your kind words my friend. Hugs ❤
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What an amazing night Debby and a wonderful tribe you have gathered around you… girl power and so sorry not to have been there to celebrate with you. Fabulous photographs and lots of happy memories. ♥♥
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Hi Sal. Thanks bunches. You know well you would have been there if you weren’t living across the pond, lol. I’m glad you could get a glimpse of what you missed, lol. Hugs my Lovely ❤ xox
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What a fabulous party, Debby so happy you have found your tribe.. Great photos and memories xx
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Thanks Carol. Yes I have wonderful tribe. ❤ 🙂
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What a wonderful party, Debby. Congratulations on your birthday and having such wonderful friends
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Thanks so much John. It was a grand night. 🙂
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Hi Debby – that looks so much fun … just suits you down to the ground … and like Sal – I’m sure I’d have been there if there was a chance … but life in E/b can be full on too. I’m so pleased for you – that’s great … cheers and happy times to you and your friends and family … lovely to see – Hilary
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Hi Hilary. Thanks so much for your good cheer. Of course you would have been there if we didn’t have a pond between us. LOL. Glad you enjoyed the highlights. 🙂 ❤
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Looks like an amazing party! Look how pretty you are! 🙂 Happy Birthday!
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Yay! Thank you so much Bren. It was a great night. ❤
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Love all the photos of you and your friends, especially the video of you dancing! I’m happy your friend Dorothy arranged such a wonderful birthday party for you. 🥳
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HI Kay, thanks so much. I am blessed to have such wonderful friends. Hugs ❤
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What a fabulous party! 🥳 It’s wonderful to have so many loyal and caring friends. 💖
May the rest of your year be equally filled with joy!
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Thanks so much Deb. Yes, a wonderful tribe of women. Hugs ❤
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What a great birthday, and you look so happy, too! I loved seeing this. Happy Birthday!🩷🌺
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Hi Kymber. Thanks so much for stopping by and leaving your good cheer. Glad you enjoyed. 🙂 ❤
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Looks and sound wonderful, Debby. Well deserved, and proper chuffed for you. xx
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Thanks bunches Judith. Sorry you couldn’t make it. Lol 🙂 xox
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With you in thought, Debby. Just couldn’t swim that far!!😊Or fly!! LOL xx
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Lolol woman! 🙂 🙂 xx
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As a youngster in a brief stint as waiter, the last thing any of us wanted to se was a gathering of old bats (or old farts). Now, as a member of one of those communities, it’s nice to be upright and mobile enough to make the wait staff miserable.
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Lolol Phil. 🙂 🙂
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What fun! I am so happy for you AND envisioning you having a fabulous year ahead. xx
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Wow, thanks so much Annette ❤
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Happy Belated Birthday!
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Thanks so much Andrew 🙂
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You’re welcome.
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How wonderful! When friends cross ages and backgrounds, that makes for the best group of besties. I’m so glad you had a wonderful birthday, Debby! 😍
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Thanks so much Jennie. And you are so right. Never a dull moment with such a diversive tribe. ❤
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Wow, Debby looks like you had a terrific birthday! So happy for you. xxx
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Thanks bunches Marje for your good cheer! ❤
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Welcome Debby. Xxx
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You have the best parties, Debby. Isn’t it wonderful to life with kindred spirits give joy to our days. I’m celebrating with you all from my side of Canada. Sending much love!!!
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Thanks so much Rebecca. I can feel the ripples. 🙂 Hugs xx
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What a fabulous birthday! I’m so glad your friends and niece went all out. You deserve it. xo
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Thanks so much Darlene ❤
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Looking fabulous, birthday girl 🤩.
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Thank you my friend. 🙂 ❤
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WOW… What a Night!!…. And Looking Great Debby… Congratulations on your recent Birthday… You girls looked like you all had FUN xxx ❤
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Thanks so much Sue. It was a fab night for sure with my wonderful tribe of friends. Cheers! 🙂 ❤ xox
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What a lovely day for you! You are indeed lucky to have so many wonderful friends!
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Thanks so much Debra. I am. ❤
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What a wonderful evening you had, Debbie! And such an extensive group of good friends. Very precious! Oh, did anyone find out your real age that night? 🙂
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Lol, thanks so much Liesbet. Some knew, others didn’t ask. The way I like it, lol. And it was a great night. 🙂 xx
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I just realized I spelled your name wrong. Sorry! I have another Debby friend that’s spelled Debbie. Apologies. 😦
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Lol, you’re so funny. But, thank you my friend. I know, I have 3 Debbie friends and only Deborah Jay (Debby Lush) spells hers like mine. It’s not as common. ❤
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What an amazing surprise and birthday party. Loved, loved the pics and the dancing queens. So glad you had an amazing birthday sis. ❤
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Hello my long lost Sis. Thanks so much for popping by and leaving your good cheer. It was a great night. ❤
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What fun! I missed getting to wish you happy birthday, but what a party! Love it!!!
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Thanks so much Jan. It was great. 🙂 ❤
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Hi Debby, what a fabulous birthday party. I enjoyed the pictures and the dance video was great. Have a wonderful weekend.
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Thanks so much Robbie. I’m glad you enjoyed. Happy weekend to you too. ❤
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Awww, I LOVE that last photo of you! You look fantastic and happy. Happy birthday (a little late) and have a bountiful, wonderful time during your next trip around the sun (which I know is going to include some PV sun!) and you are lucky to have so many great people in your tribe. ♥
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Hi Melanie. Thanks so much for your good cheer. I’m so glad you enjoyed the birthday snippets. It was a great night. ❤
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🤗🎂 (I didn’t know how many candles to put on this cake, lol, but I won’t ask. It’s impolite. 😊💕).
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That is correct. Lol 🙂 ❤
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Wow! You have an awesome set of friends, Deb! Happy belated birthday. Thanks for sharing lovely pictures. Keep the fun going!
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Thank you so much Balroop. It’s all about friends. ❤
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Happy Birthday! Looks like you have some amazing friends to plan such a wonderful day for you. 🥳 Much love… ~M xo
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Thank you so much Michelle. ❤
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Debby, what a fabulous group of friends and they are richness in one’s life! It is great to see the fun and joy you are all having, what a wonderful party they’ve put together and love the dancing! Here is to our special tribes! Happy Belated Birthday, my friend! hugs, Annika xx 🎉❤️
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Hi Annika. Thanks so much for your lovely wishes. I’m so glad you enjoyed the mini clips of moments. I am truly blessed to have so many new and wonderful friends. Hugs ❤ xx
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Wow! That was one rockin’ partay, Debby! 🌟🎂💃🏽🎉
I love all the good feelings and love in this post, at this party.
You are for sure fortunate to have so many great gals in your life. That seems like the best gift of all. Still, I’m sure the presents were fun.
Viagra ad…LOLOL!!! A good joke is always a gas!
I wish you many more Happy Birthdays!
xo🌹❦xo
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Lol, thanks for dropping by my party Resa. I’m so glad you enjoyed the snippets. A great tribe of women for sure, and Viagra topped it all off. Lol. Hugs ❤ xox
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The party was a gas. I’m still recovering! 😵💫🥴
Kidding aside, your tribe rocks! ❦🌹❦🌹xo
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Lol, thank you my lovely friend. 🙂 ❤ xxx
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🙂 ❤ xxx
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What a wonderful tribe of friends you have, Debby! You are truly blessed! Looks like great fun! You all were busting moves in those shots! Do people even say that anymore? 😂 Happy birthday again, my friend!
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Lol Terri, yes, that’s so funny. But funnier, we were busting some Zumba moves. 🙂 ❤
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What a fun celebration! Happy birthday Debby! I’m so glad your dear friends took care of you. Clearly, you are loved. I want to come next year! Hugs, C
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Lol, thanks Cheryl. It was a blast. And you are welcome anytime! 🙂 ❤
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